Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Better than Red Bull!

I took a big gulp of Root Beer today and there was something about the icy sweetness on this summer afternoon that brought a vivid memory of when I went to camp in the mid 1960s. We got two canteen breaks each day and I loved to drink root beer while eating a Zero candy bar. Talk about your sugar high!  I am not sure if they even make Zeros any more but they were one of my favorites when I was 12.  Silver wrapper with blue writing. Remember those?  We never had candy bars when I was at home so pigging out on junk food at camp was a special treat.

I think my first year of camp was when I had finished the 5th grade. It was in a beautiful location in northern Arkansas with a major rock cliff overlooking the White River. There were lots of great hiking paths and a concrete staircase down the side of a steep hill. Baseball diamonds and pavilions for activities. And, it was hot! 

We slept in screened in cabins with no electricity, just the sun by day and flashlights after dark.  Each cabin held bunks for 14 giggly girls. Or rather 13 girls and one college student counselor. The boys cabins were on the other side of the camp and we had about 80 girls and probably as many boys in ourgroup in our session. The bunks were wooden with 2 inch mattresses but by the end of each day you were so exhausted you slept like a rock. And the wooden walls were covered with notes written in ballpoint pen from campers from other sessions and other summers. "CABIN 5 - Session II is the BEST! July 1965" or "Debra + Benny 4 Ever"

There was a shower house for every 6 or 8 cabins.  Concrete walls and floors with wooden potty stalls and only cold water for showers. At the age of 11 or 12 those community showers were the worst.  I remember trying to find an odd time each day to shower, hoping to avoid any and everyone!  It generally did not work since there were too many other modest preteens with the same idea.

Each camp session lasted two weeks and I remember the summer crushes and those special moments holding hands. Or, if you were one of the older campers, furtive kisses!  Love bloomed quickly at the the foothills of the Ozarks. And, when camp was over you had pen pals that generally only lasted through the end of the summer but on occasion would last through the following school year.  I remember Jim L. who wrote to me over the course of two summers.  I can still recall his angst when he instructed me that if I ever had a son, to never, ever keep him from playing football if that was what he wanted to do.  [When I saw Jim at college years later we talked and laughed about those letters and how upset he was with his mom at the time. Jim later became a doctor.]

I went to camp by myself the first year and I remember getting a little homesick. Funny the things that I can recall about that whole experience. My parents did not know any better that first year but the other, more experienced campers (who probably had older brothers or sisters laying the ground work) got "care packages" in the mail with comic books, candy, homemade cookies and notes from home. I think it was mythird year at camp before I convinced my mother that receiving a care package was an absolute necessity!  If you did not have one, you could not share with your friends and basically you felt like the bottom rung of a cast society.

Each day we were encouraged to write letters during quiet time and I am sure my mother still has my camp epistles saved somewhere, with pitiful laments begging for a care package.

After that first year, I recall stationary was so important when packing my foot locker for camp.  You did not want to appear childish with the wrong kind of writing paper. This was the time of the Beatles and the Peter Maxx art explosion. No baby pastels for me.  The brighter the colors and the more flowers on the matching envelopes the better!  And, I think the stamps were 5 cents at the time.  I do know the letters covered a lot of ground in just one night back then.

And, then there were the songs!  "We love you ________, oh yes we do-o.  We love you ___________ and we'll be true-oo.  When you're not with us, we're blue.  Oh,  _________, we love you!!"  Toward the middle of the session, the boys would sneak over after lights out and serenade the girls and a couple of nights later we would go over to the boy's side of camp and serenade them. It was always supposed to be a surprise but invariably some girl or boy, in an effort to show their deep commitment to their new love, would spill the beans. We felt so brazen "sneaking" over to the forbidden side of the camp. Of course, the counselors were leading the way and bringing up the rear so no one was lost in the darkness.  And, how exciting to hear the boys actually sing tous - songs they obviously had to practice.  And, then there would be some silly song to break the mood and remind us that they really were very macho and had been forced to participate.  (I wonder what word I would have used to describe them in 1965?)

It was a simpler time where the biggest problem I can recall was when Cheryl got mad at Rusty and slapped him during a three-legged race, thus ending their summer romance.  I believe three girls were quick to step up and try to help Rusty recover.

I could go on and on but I must save the rest for another time - tales of crafts and lanyards, salt tablets, towels that never dried after swimming and were mildewed by the time you went home and the mess hall and Sadie Hawkins Day......  

What happy memories one drink of root beer brought back to me today.  

SummerDays.jpg picture by JJDolfin9

 

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Who sed it were wrong?

Today I finally remembered to look up something that has been passing through my mind for some time. Often when I am writing, I have been stumped about whether the proper use of the term was "use to" or "used to" and "suppose to" or "supposed to."  I thought I knew the answer but found out today, thanks to Grammar Slammer that I have been wrong.  Color me pink.

In this day of texting acronyms and a general acceptance of all things "laid back", I still try my best to use proper English and punctuation.  When I first went to college I actually thought that I wanted to major in English. Thanks to some advanced placement testing at the time I was able to test out of three semesters of college English so my very first class was second semester Sophomore English. I don't mean for this to come off as bragging.  My mother was a stickler for correct English and she drilled it into my head from an early age so I do not feel I can take much credit. By the time I went off to college, it came as second nature to me.   

On my very first day of college level English, sitting on the front row, I actually fell asleep in the class and knew right then and there I would never make it as an English major. I never did enjoy that class and since it was the last English class I was required to take, it was the last one I ever took.

I am grateful that if I want to know something, the Internet has the answers and generally it is free.  Sometimes it is just a challenge to know how to look up the question.

http://englishplus.com/grammar/

 

Is everything shrinking but me?

Twice this weekend I have faced an ugly reality.  Rather than increase the price of a product or change the packaging to more realistically reflect the quantity of the amount contained therein, the manufacturers make subtle differences and hope we consumers will not notice.

Take Lean Cuisine's Glazed Chicken. I was shocked to open a package at lunch today and find that the amount of actual chicken included in the entree was significantly reduced. Thinking I would not notice, I was greeted by four pieces where there used to be three.  They don't fool me!  The combined weight of these four pieces has to be less than what used to be in the package for the same price. Believe me, when my dinner consumption is limited to just what is included in that black plastic tray, you can be sure I know how far I can make it stretch.  I was now looking at nuggets that were the equivalent of about five forkfuls. And, where did the mushrooms go? Have they been pureed into the sauce? There were no discernable pieces in the entree - no, make that appetizer, I ate today.  Since I do not save old packaging Lean Cuisine has me at a disadvantage of comparing. But I know what I did not get to eat today!

Speaking of appetizers, I purchased a box of Triskets last week. I was again, shocked at the size of the crackers when I opened the box to eat some on Saturday.  It has obviously been a while since I bought Triskets and I looked at the front of the box to see if I had accidentally purchased what I would have called Trisket Minis. Nope. The size of the box is the same as is the advertising but the actual crackers are not much bigger than a quarter now.  Again, since I do not have any old packaging to compare, I can only assume the weight is reduced and "per serving" details have been updated. I still feel cheated.

I had noticed other subtle changes in products recently that I think are the manufacturer's way to cut costs and lead the consumer to think nothing has changed.  I like jumbo cottonballs and have to search hard to find them. The last time I bought a bag, it looked the same but when I pulled out the first ball, I detected a difference.  The cotton was wound so loosely it was difficult to hold the shape when I was trying to use it.  Basically, the size looked the same but when dampened, it shrank up to a much smaller wad of cotton.  Less cotton is being used to create what looks like the same size product. This time I had an old, identical package to compare.  There is a definite difference in the quality.  Since there is no weight or quantity on the packaging, basically, we are getting an inferior product for the same cost. 

Remember when sugar came in a five pound bag? Now we get four pounds and pay even more.  If you are the cook in your household you have no doubt noticed that while packaging may have stayed the same, the weight has changed. Old recipes will reference a specific number of ounces that were once in a standard can of tomato sauce or peaches or condensed milk, but those same items are tipping the scales a little lighter these days.  I just wish I was!

What items have you noticed are smaller in quantity but the packaging seems to stay the same?

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

AOL Journals - 5 years and counting

 AOL Journals is now 5 years old.  I started my first AOL Journal 8/5/05 but due to a variety of issues, I have only been active for the equivalent of one year. When I stopped writing in 2006 I had a pretty steady readership and was part of a very active group of JLanders. Now that I have started up again in 2008 I have found it very different but still sense the camaraderie that was the backbone of our journal community all along.

I have searched for my "old" friends and have found many of them. Some stopped old journals and started new ones. Others have gone Private.  Some have stopped writing altogether like I did but I hope they get going again - like I did. Sometimes it just takes a break to give you renewed energy.

And, I have found still more JLand friends on blogs outside the AOL community. The unwanted addition of advertisements on our journals and the dismissive attitude of AOL execs to the collective outcry caused a mass exodus of many back then.  I am pleased that you can now be part of the AOL community free of charge and I'd like to think that was the price AOL paid for not recognizing the loyalty and importance of the AOL Journalers

Back in 2005 I was fortunate to actually meet with several JLanders who lived within a few miles of me. We had sucha great time getting to know one another and it was a blast putting names with faces. Time will not take away those great memories. Check out my old entries (Nov 2005) of pictures of our first luncheon. http://journals.aol.com/dbp2000/DustBunnyProtector/entries/2005/11/07/meeting-other-j-landers/625

Also, during that time there was the annual Journal equivalent of the Oscars.  It was called the VIVIs and we had a virtual VIVI Awards Show via two very large chat rooms. What fun we had that night!!! It was a lot of work for the organizers but it drew us all together in a way no other activity had done to that point. I have seen a few logos in various journals so I hope that is an activity that continues, regardless of the name.

Fast forward to 2008.  I see the improvements with the interactive events on Magic Smoke which promotes journal community bonding. I see a lot of new writers and quite a few old ones. Writing a journal is not always easy. It can be a challenge to be original if that is your aim. Or, funny.  Or, creative. Or, stick with your theme. Or sometimes, even be coherent!  Bravo to the writers who have been consistent in adding entries.  My hat's off to you.

Thanks to those of you who read my journal. I truly appreciate your comments and feedback. I know that I should leave more comments but sometimes I just have such limited time to spend online that I read your entries and move on. 

This journal is a source of pleasure for me and I hope you find your journal is for you as well.

Saturday, August 9, 2008

Celebrating Seniors

Today was the first day of my vacation. Woo Hoo!!! I traveled three hours to my parent's home to spend a few days with them and my sister and brother in law who flew in from Florida. Tomorrow my son, daughter and her family will join us for a couple of days. We are all gathered to celebrate my dad's birthday. The big 8-0!!!! 

I cannot believe my dad is that old since he is still as sharp as ever and worked up until last year. He would still be working in 2008 if the cost of fuel did not keep him close to home. (Daddy use to travel a territory as a sales rep and as recently as last year he had business contacts who asked him to rep their line.)

Daddy is not one to let grass grow under his feet. In fact, he still does much of the lawn work for the big corner lot surrounding the house where he and my mother live. He breaks it into two days' work but he is always pleased when he did not have to pay someone else to handle it. Mother always planted beds of flowers but this year they decided to put in new shrubs in place of the flowers. After the boxwoods were in, Mom could not stand it and bought a few pansies to go at the end of the front sidewalk as well. Old habits die hard.

My dad also enjoys his computer and continued to upgrade the equipment as recently as 2006, adding all the latest add ons like scanner, photo printer, etc, citing it as a business expense. As long as the CPU was black, Mother never noticed the difference. With his Internet connection to the world, Daddy loves to forward his share of jokes and political humor.  I see from his forwards that he is getting much of this fodder from other "seniors" who are also computer savvy. They are a politically vocal group. No wonder AARP is a force to be reckoned with!!!

Daddy sends his thoughts and admonitions to the local editorial section of the paper as well as various state and national politicians. To receive a response or see his letter in print is fuel to his conservative fire. No doubt he has given W a piece of his mind since Daddy is less than thrilled with many of Bush's actions. I am just pleased that Daddy can use the computer to express himself and lower his blood pressure. I wonder if he is on any lists?  If he finds out he is, I will expect to see him sport a lapel pin announcing his crimes of opinion!!

Dad has learned to verify stories with www.snopes,com which did wonders to reduce the amount of email I got from him. He still wants more speed on his system but we have him fully loaded as it is. My biggest challenge is trying to teach him something new over the phone. He typically feigns ignorance (or inability to clearly hear me on the phone) and says the only solution is for me to come see him and we'll have a computer lesson.

I think one of the best gifts I will give him for his birthday will be to defrag his system.  Donna to the rescue!!

 


 
 

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Ranger's Baseball

 Friday night I went with a group of girlfriends to my first ever professional baseball game. I have been to lots of Cowboy football games, seen the Spurs, Lakers and Mavericks play basketball, and watched the Dallas Stars play hockey.  I am not a big sports fan but I do enjoy going on occasion.  I just don't want to sweat.

This was an evening game but the temperature at the Ballpark in Arlington, where the Texas Rangers were playing, was still over 100 degrees in the shade. In spite of the sticky heat it was fun to get out, practice taking pictures with my new camera and enjoy the sights and sounds of baseball.

My friends are old hands at attending the games so they knew where we should park and ride, what to bring in the coolers and how to dress. We were dropped off right at the gate which meant I did not have to walk far and that was a relief. As we arrived, everyone attending the game that night was given a Ranger cooler. Freebies!  I love 'em. 

And, throughout the evening there were all sorts of activities to keep you entertained, in addition to the game, of course. There was the Hooters Bingo where you had to match the code of a play against your playing card. A nice guy sitting behind me helped me keep track as the plays happened. I did not ever get a winning line since each row had at least one unusual play that was not likely to happen.  They had to have some statistician put these cards together but even at that, only the first 25 winners that submitted their playcard were given prizes anyway. It was fun to try and helped keep my mind off the steady trickle of sweat running down my back.

Those of us who were novices did not bring coolers but I said I felt that buying food at the game is half the experience anyway.  Right?  Of course, $4.50 for a little hotdog and $5.25 for a large soda gave me more "atmosphere" than I had anticipated!! But I was just sure that the hotdog tasted better there in the stands than it would have at home.

Half of our group was on one row and the other half sat behind them. I was on the second row and, of course, the row in front was picked for everyone to win tickets to a future game and a free Rangers t-shirt. Additional shirts were also shot into the stands from a slingshot. No shirt for me.  I was content with my cooler. 

Later the cheerleaders (or whatever they are called at a baseball game) handed out coupons for free tacos to everyone in attendance.  In the 6th inning there was a race on the scoreboard and depending on the color, you could be the winner of another prize.  I missed that one entirely but I heard it was not my color so I did not care.

During the 6th inning I discovered the air conditioning in the restroom.  I tried my best to convince any of my friends to just hang out with me for a while but I found no takers,  Go figure!!  When I went back for another drink I found that if I leaned my head and shoulders over the counter, I could feel a breeze.  It was so flippin' hot I just took pieces of ice, let the soda drip off and then dropped them into my shirt. But I was having fun!! Nothing like an outdoor sauna with friends.

Back in the stands the rest of our group with coolers had bottles of water, bags of ice and a variety of food items they passed around. There was a constant stream of vendors with peanuts, beer, margaritas, ice cream,sodas and cotton candy. Oh, yeah. There was also a game going on out of the field.

The Rangers have not been doing well lately and on this night they were playing the Toronto Bluejays. They were behind from the beginning, caught up, fell behind again and it did not look good for the home team. But in the 9th inning the Rangers pulled out from behind and won the game at the last possible minute.  Very exciting and I got a ton of great pictures. 

It was a fun evening and now I know how to be prepared for the next time. Daisy Duke shorts, halter top, cooler of ice and a battery operated fan!  This grandmom will rock!

Friday, August 1, 2008

Recovering my fashion sense

Some of you have asked me now and then how I am doing in my recovery from my car accident last November. I am happy to say that July was a red letter month for me. I have been in therapy for several weeks now for my ankle and three weeks ago I actually wore a pair of my regular dress shoes to church. That was a very big deal! I have been wearing pants all these months so that my shoe attire (i.e, cast, brace, walking boot, et al) was not as noticeable and to actually be able to get my foot in one of my "regular" shoes was a thrill.

Of course, I brought a spare pair of athletic shoes with me in case this adventure was too premature.  When the last Amen was spoken, I hobbled my way to the car and pried the right shoe off my misshapen foot. For the next couple of hours the distinct line of indention was visible.  But that was not before I made sure all my friends took notice of my returning fashion sense!  They were very happy for me and assured me that they could tell the swelling was going down. Yah, right!! 

It has been very discouraging to look at the shoes lining my closet that I cannot wear.  It makes me wince to even think of trying to put them on. Heels?  Perish the thought!!  Even the lowest of the low heels I have are a strain on my recovering extremity. Talk about your pain and suffering!!  Which, by the way, the insurance from the accident has still not been settled and I am convinced, if I decided to go to trial, I would hope the lawyer would fill the jury with fashionistas that could empathize with my loss of appropriate footwear. 

But beyond the pain I was willing to endure for a couple of hours at church by wearing shoes, it was nothing compared to the other agony I put myself through.  I wore pantyhose ... in Texas ...in July.  What was I thinking??!  I wasn't. By the time I was safe back in my car in the parking lot, not only did I remove the shoes, I tried to delicately rid myself of that second layer of skin I had applied that morning.  I almost had a claustrophobic fit trying to free myself ot the twisting nylon (they are still made of nylon, correct?). While rocking back and forth in the car, trying to free myself from my prideful choices, various acquaintances passed and waved. 

Wiggle, wiggle.  Smile.  Wave at the brethren.  Tug, wiggle.  Smile, nod.  Rock, wiggle and wave. I believe I may have created a new dance step or perhaps an entry for the Kama Sutra.  

After that Sunday, I was brave enough to endure a pedicure and began wearing sandals. Life as I remember it is starting to return.

I went to the ankle surgeon on Wednesday this week and he indicated that, since I still have a considerable amount of swelling in spite of the therapy, perhaps I should consider a cortisone shot. I acted like I did not hear him. He talked a bit more, flexed my ankle and mentioned it again.  On the third mention I gave up and asked, "Do you think the ankle is shot worthy today or shall I wait until the next visit?" He thought it was a smart choice and I reluctantly agreed to the injection. The next five minutes are too painful to discuss but I am thrilled that by today, I could see the obvious protrusion of what I am sure is an ankle! 

And, while I am on the subject of ankles/feet/shoes, let me tell you more about the owner of that rack of colorful shoes in my previous entry. While some of you identified a single trait here and there, those shoes actually belong to a man in his mid-forties.  He is obsessed with footwear and he just loves Zappadas.  Can you tell he's a shopoholic?  And, very organized?  And, OCD? And, gay?  Yep.  That would be him. Some of those shoes have never been worn so, in my opinion, their presentation is something of an artistic decor statement. He has a unique style, loves primary colors for his decorating palette and Picasso styled artwork.  Are you surprised?

For another journal entry about my accident, visit http://journals.aol.com/dbp2000/DustBunnyProtector/entries/2008/05/30/im-old-but-not-that-old/2093